So I fell off for a little while. If you have been reading or know me at all you know I have spent sometime overseas for the last few months. I wrote for therapy, for others, for insight. Then I stopped.
I couldn't write any longer, because the constant reminder of being away, of reality, and of how far I was from where I wanted to be. I needed to stop writing and just get through it. There were all the same challenges, but I learned so much a long the way that when it was time to leave I was ready. More ready and prepared that I thought I would be.
Now I am home, and the transition when I got home was tougher then I expected. I was ready to take on all my obstacles face all the probems and deal with them. Well like the saying goes ""If you want to make God laugh, tell God your plans."
I was not socially ready for outings and get togethers. My emotions ran the gamit of ups and downs and the expectation was that mommy is home and the wife is back and everything is as it should be. So the ride though bumpy has smoothed out and we are filling in the potholes along the way.
Back to work and making moves that will take me to the next level in my life and I guess at this point that is all I can do.
For me the lesson of all of this is pretty simple......The only thing in life you can plan on is change, and it is what you do along the way to react to change and overcome challenges that will dictate your success.
I couldn't write any longer, because the constant reminder of being away, of reality, and of how far I was from where I wanted to be. I needed to stop writing and just get through it. There were all the same challenges, but I learned so much a long the way that when it was time to leave I was ready. More ready and prepared that I thought I would be.
Now I am home, and the transition when I got home was tougher then I expected. I was ready to take on all my obstacles face all the probems and deal with them. Well like the saying goes ""If you want to make God laugh, tell God your plans."
I was not socially ready for outings and get togethers. My emotions ran the gamit of ups and downs and the expectation was that mommy is home and the wife is back and everything is as it should be. So the ride though bumpy has smoothed out and we are filling in the potholes along the way.
Back to work and making moves that will take me to the next level in my life and I guess at this point that is all I can do.
For me the lesson of all of this is pretty simple......The only thing in life you can plan on is change, and it is what you do along the way to react to change and overcome challenges that will dictate your success.
